Here’s some of the best advice I’ve ever received:

“You don’t have to love all the music you play, but don’t embarrass yourself.”

Ideally we’ll always play the music we love for the people who love it. But that can actually be a rare occurrence, especially for people trying to make a living playing music.

A fundamentalist wouldn’t play a single note unless they were in the perfect conditions with the perfect audience. They would have principles but rarely play note.

A more casual musician plays all the time, but perhaps doesn’t love all the music being played.

There’s some middle ground here where one can play music, learn from unfamiliar styles and musicians, but not burn out on things that don’t serve their particular musical goal.

You don’t have to go to every jam, or take every gig, or learn every style. You’re better off doing some picking and choosing.



You don’t have to be particularly skilled or knowledgeable to teach.

You just have to be honest about what you know.

Teaching also has a magical ability to clarify your own understanding of a concept, so I would suggest teaching anyone that asks for your advice.

Consider this: When you were learning, how would you want someone to explain what you know now? How many different ways can you explain what you know?



There’s a reason why starting something new feels so exciting and fresh.

It’s because when we start from the beginning we absorb new information all the time.

“I”m new to this, I need all the help I can get”

But then later, “I should be better than this, I know all about how to do this”

I believe we lose our willingness to learn, listen to others, and enjoy the process of learning as we become more familiar with something.

But we don’t have to. Today could be the first day again, as long as we’re content with getting a little bit done every day.